In the beginning relationships are exciting, we can’t wait to spend as much time together as possible, we love expressing our love for each other, we don’t mind doing things we don’t like that much as long as they make our partner happy.
But then, with time, this slowly diminishes, and we feel that our partner surely knows how much we love them as we showed and told them that numerous times in the past. It doesn’t mean that we don’t care about our partner anymore, we just get into the comfortable phase. If you have children, it’s even harder to find some quality partner time.
Yet, we still long for some of that intimate time from the beginning of the relationship and want our partner to still be that partner from the days of courtship. We often want THEM to show us first that they still care for us in the same way by doing things they did in the early stages of the relationship, and WHEN they do that, we will do the same. We want THEM to make the first move. But what if our partner feels the same way? Maybe they want US to make the first move, to be the first to rekindle romance, and so we end up in this wishing circle when both just wish but don’t act. Gandhi once said that we should be the change that we want to see in the world so why not YOU be the first to start bringing that sparkle back? Do it because you love your partner and you want to treat them the best way you can. Lead the way and your partner will follow.
I know it can be hard to come up with ideas of how to do that and this is where Bring the Spark Back Cards can help you. The pack contains 53 cards with ideas. What you have to do is pick a random card at the beginning of a week and do what is written on it some time during the week. You decide when you do it, just make sure you really do it, no excuses. Make the effort every week as that is what keeps the relationship going. The more there’s a connection, the more you feel close to your partner; and when the feeling of intimacy is great, it is easier to get through conflicts. By doing the things on the cards, you show your partner that they are on your mind and that you appreciate them – and who doesn’t like that?! 🙂 You will create happy memories together, which will bring your relationship closer.
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